Very valid. Especially if there is question about the achievability of the "yet are", and you're are right, that does seem to be harder to achieve in a heterosexual relationship wherein the female is the sub, because of the cultural assumptions and unawareness that often go along with that. And not mixing your kink with money is generally a good policy. Though, there is something about the song and dance of being pampered and treated during one's evening out that is just nice -- but then only if you know the sums are going to add up somewhere else.
I do think the lack of cultural assumption in gay male relationships is part of what makes this all easier. Typically, the top treats and everyone is generally and unconflicted about that.
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Date: 2011-11-14 02:24 pm (UTC)I do think the lack of cultural assumption in gay male relationships is part of what makes this all easier. Typically, the top treats and everyone is generally and unconflicted about that.