We either went Dutch or traded off who was treating.
I tend not to want to mix money with my kink... actually I think that might be a hard limit for me, though if I was with someone who felt really strongly in the other direction, I guess I would try it once, or at least talk about it..
On a said evening would be okay, if it worked out to even over time. Or if one person always treated in restaurants but the other was spending an equivalent amount on their mutual entertainment in other ways, maybe...
One of the things is that my switchiness is about 95 percent sub and my bisexuality is about 80 percent het. So it won't just naturally work out to "and yet are" in my case. If I correlated my kink with who pays, I'd end up being paid for by guys the vast majority of the time. Among other things, it hardly seems fair to the guys. Being a dom doesn't come with a subsidy.
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Date: 2011-11-14 02:13 pm (UTC)I tend not to want to mix money with my kink... actually I think that might be a hard limit for me, though if I was with someone who felt really strongly in the other direction, I guess I would try it once, or at least talk about it..
On a said evening would be okay, if it worked out to even over time. Or if one person always treated in restaurants but the other was spending an equivalent amount on their mutual entertainment in other ways, maybe...
One of the things is that my switchiness is about 95 percent sub and my bisexuality is about 80 percent het. So it won't just naturally work out to "and yet are" in my case. If I correlated my kink with who pays, I'd end up being paid for by guys the vast majority of the time. Among other things, it hardly seems fair to the guys. Being a dom doesn't come with a subsidy.